You just found out your partner was unfaithful.
Aftermath can help you start your healing journey.
An on-demand video course to help you manage painful emotions, cope with flashbacks, get through the day, communicate and avoid making things worse.
You’re probably filled with overwhelming emotions like:
Intense rage, depression or panic
Placing blame or guilt on yourself
A lack of safety or trust in your partner
Abandonment and not feeling cared about
I know that in the time between the infidelity being discovered and when couples get to couples therapy, they struggle. Whether they get into huge blow out fights, more lies were told or they are struggling to manage flashbacks. Many couples unintentionally make a hard situation worse.
I get how hard this is.
That’s why I created the online course Aftermath.
At a time when you cannot see the forest through the trees, Aftermath is meant to be a map to steer you through the difficult terrain.
Aftermath is broken into three sections:
A framework for understanding and working through painful emotions.
Conversation guidelines so you can talk in productive and peaceful ways.
Considerations for getting through daily interactions.
After the course you’ll:
Understand the traumatic impact of infidelity and be able to process your difficult emotions.
Have a strategy to discuss hard topics like: what happened and why the infidelity happened, should you stay together or separate, and your boundaries and expectations.
Have a plan to get through daily interactions. In this section you will cover managing household responsibilities, spending time together, navigating sex and touch, and coping with flashbacks.
I’m ready to start healing
Hi, I’m Amber Dalsin, M.Sc., C.Psych. Psychologist Couples Therapist
I have worked with countless couples who are healing from infidelity.
In the last 10+ years I’ve done over 10,000 hours of therapy. I’m a Certified Gottman Therapist. I have helped hundreds of couples navigate flashbacks, have conversations about living together or apart, and learn how to have respectful conversations that make them both feel safe and secure.
You’re already in emotional turmoil and it’s hard to know what kind of support you need right now.
Do you read blogs on the internet, buy a book off Amazon, or find a couples therapist? These choices can be overwhelming.
That’s why I’m here to give you tangible tools and science backed education about how to navigate the immediate aftermath of infidelity, so you can:
Regulate your nervous system when you are flooded with painful emotions.
Have honest and intentional conversations about how you will get through the day.
Decide if you are better off living together for now, or if you need to be apart.
Communicate well about difficult topics.
This is going to take lots of intentional work... at a time when being intentional is hard. If you need help, this is a good time to look for a couples therapist in your local area who works with affairs.
I developed the online course Aftermath so you can get immediate access when you need help most.
Aftermath is designed to kickstart your healing journey
Inside the course you’ll find:
✔ 16 bite sized videos to help you identify what is happening to your emotions, how to start to cope with the pain, and communicate with your partner.
✔ Step-by-step worksheets so you have a plan for coping with flashbacks, get clear on what you need to get through the day, and gain confidence that you are communicating well.
✔ Strategies for immediate action so you can ground yourself, get through your days, and have productive conversations.
Who is Aftermath for?
Relationships where infidelity has recently been discovered
The betrayed partner is experiencing intense emotions
Couples that aren’t sure if they should stay together
Couples struggling to get through the day
Couples who want to learn productive communication skills to avoid making things worse
This course is not meant as a substitute for couples therapy, rather a resource to bridge the gap from finding out until you can see a local relationship professional. It could also be used as a stand-alone resource. It is a starting place, not a course to work you all the way through infidelity.
I’m ready for immediate help
Start Healing
Begin processing your emotions, coping with flashbacks, and planning for how to get through the day.
Investment
$99 USD
Inside Aftermath you will get:
Questions to ask yourself when you’re considering if you should separate immediately or stay together for now
Questions to ask to get the most important information about what happened
Things to consider in getting through your day-to-day interactions
Ideas for deciding how to spend time together and what to do
A guide to managing flashbacks and painful emotions
Strategies for how to talk to each other during difficult conversations so you don’t make things worse
I guarantee you’ll love this course…
and I’m backing it up with a 100% risk-free guarantee.
The strategies I teach you in Aftermath are worth their weight in gold. I can’t guarantee it will work for you because I don’t know anything about you, so…
If you watched the all videos, did all the worksheets, and tried the exercises and still didn’t think Aftermath was helpful, email us within 30 days of purchase and we will give you a full refund. See details in FAQ.
Aftermath
Frequently Asked Questions
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It is ideal if both partners watch the videos, do the worksheets, and are willing to engage conversations about the material together. However, it will likely benefit the hurt partner or the betraying partner to work through the material alone.
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It’s highly unlikely it will be covered by an insurance provider. If you want to check, reach out to your extended health care provider for details. Amber Dalsin is a Psychologist in the Province of Ontario.
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The suggestions and resources will be based on general relationship knowledge, not specific relationship advice. Amber Dalsin cannot provide you with specific relationship advice as she will not have done a relationship assessment with you and cannot provide you with specific advice.
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Yes. There is a 30-day money-back guarantee from your date of purchase. If you watched all the videos, completed all the worksheets, and tried the exercises and still didn’t think Aftermath was helpful, email us within 30 days of purchase with all of your completed worksheets, and we will give you a full refund. To get the refund we will review your account to ensure you did watch all the videos, and we will require copies of all your completed worksheets. If you do not watch all the videos or complete all the worksheets you will not get a refund. Email team@emberrelationshippsychology.com with the subject line “refund”.
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As a regulated health care provider, I cannot use testimonials. If you wish to learn more about Amber or Ember Relationship Psychology, try downloading a free guide first, listening to Relationship Psych-The Podcast, or check out our Instagram to determine if you think our skills can help you like our work.