How to become a better listener

Listening is not just about words hitting your eardrums; it's about building love and trust with your partner.

Have you ever thought...

• I want a more peaceful relationship

• I want to be heard

• I wish I was understood

here are some examples to get you started:

I would pick you again and again

You make me believe in happily ever after

Meeting you made me believe in forever

You are so beautiful/handsome

I love how you feel

I feel at home in your arms

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